Yated Shidduch Forum 5/27/22: We Met With Shadchanim, What Hishtadlus Can We Do Now?
Question:
Our daughter is ready to begin shidduchim and we met with some shadchanim.
Now what? Do we just sit and wait for the phone to ring? Do we go to meet with even more shadchanim?
Is there any additional effective hishtadlus that you would recommend that we do, other ways to come up with possible suggestions for our daughter?
Yated Shidduch Forum 5/13/22: Are People Too Negative When They Speak About Shidduchim?
Question:
One of the most unfortunate lines that I keep hearing from parents of boys and girls alike is, “We can’t wait to be out of shidduchim,” or, “I feel such a load off my shoulders in between my children who are dating.” Is there any way to spin the process into a lighter, more positive experience for all as we remind ourselves daily that it is a brocha to have dating children and iy”H bring them to the chupah, instead of an overwhelming burdensome parsha?