Yated Shidduch Forum 3/1/19: We Already Gave a Yes. Can We Change Our Minds?
Question:
We gave a yes to a shidduch for our son, and as the girl’s side was checking out our son, the shadchan came back with a list of questions numerous times. We realized based on the questions that this was not a match. Both sides were looking for different attributes, and my son, in our opinion at that point, was not what they were looking for and vice versa.
We let the shadchan know while they were checking out my son that we were no longer interested and we explained why…